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Old 05-05-2008, 06:09 AM
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Sometimes i think people should learn to mind there own bussiness
maybe make a comment if someone is doing something you dont like but dont lecture them
if i want to do summit no one will change my mind
or maybe pm them
but why do some people take it upon them selves to turn the classifieds forums into and argument forum
i have advertised for someone else for a puppy 3 pages later no one with a puppy and a load of st from someone whos help is not needed it ruins what rep forums is all about
so can someone please help me get it removed as i dont need this from anyone
i advertised in domestic and exotic and just want my post for a pup removed as its not fair on other people cause so far i have been made out to be a bad dog owner and i certainly am not i love my animals very much
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Old 05-05-2008, 02:24 PM
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if you want the thread removed, maybe pm a mod and ask them, theres a couple online at the mo,(at the bottom of the first page where it lists members their names appear green)
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Old 05-05-2008, 02:31 PM
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Look im not being nasty just trying to make you understand that if you have a snappy dog already then it would be the biggest mistake in the world for you to add another puppy or dog to your pack yet

Im not being nasty at all just you have stated you have children aging from 13wks up and you have a pom that hates children

the pup will learn from the pom to hate children too then what happens a staffy is a hell of alot bigger than a pom hun

im just trying to help you thats all but you think im being nasty trust me i aint

im thinking about your children and the devestation you would be put through if that pup when bigger turned on one of your kids and hurt them cos its seen the pom do it and thinks its ok
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Old 05-05-2008, 02:55 PM
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Look im not being nasty just trying to make you understand that if you have a snappy dog already then it would be the biggest mistake in the world for you to add another puppy or dog to your pack yet

Im not being nasty at all just you have stated you have children aging from 13wks up and you have a pom that hates children

the pup will learn from the pom to hate children too then what happens a staffy is a hell of alot bigger than a pom hun

im just trying to help you thats all but you think im being nasty trust me i aint

im thinking about your children and the devestation you would be put through if that pup when bigger turned on one of your kids and hurt them cos its seen the pom do it and thinks its ok

I take it you mentioned all this on the original thread so why do you feel the need to do it again. The person has asked for her ad to be removed as she doesn't want people having a go at her, so why come on and do it again.
You might think your trying to do her a favour but she seams to not see it that way and going on and on isnt helping, she's already said you wont change her mind so all thats going to happen is another arguement.

Why cant people just get along theres already people leaving this forum because of all the bitching, its a shame.
Before you say anything i'm not saying you are bitching, i'm saying in general theres a lot of people going on threads and giving people a hard time.
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Old 05-05-2008, 03:02 PM
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im not having a go at any one but i think the advice EMMAJ has given is quite correct under the secomstances, i mean would you add another dog to a pack, a puppy that is that will learn to hate children from the pom and a stafy come on love thats like asking a cobra not to spit! think of the children, no one called her a bad dog owner but i do think it would be a bad dession to make.
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Old 05-05-2008, 03:19 PM
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Old 05-05-2008, 04:46 PM
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I fully understand where you are coming from!
there was a person who was selling an xbox360 and people were posting replies saying they wouldnt trust him to actually send it as he hadnt put pictures on the listing! How ridiculous just because you might be unable to post a pic it doesnt mean you cant be trusted what it means is that you might not have a digital camera or you just havent taken pictures yet!
I kept sticking up for someone as trhe people posting replies where being jerks.
It also took me ages to work out how to put pics on things Ive sold as not everyone has a photobucket account!
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Old 05-05-2008, 04:54 PM
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It's a pity and childish I think if people really want to offer advice they should pm the person that way the whole post doesn't become a fight or thread of nasty comments.
If people were pm'd in a nice informative manner they may actually try to take into consideration what the person is trying to say.
but I agree comments like "don't trust him due to due to no pictures." are mean and totally off-putting.
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Old 05-05-2008, 05:10 PM
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Look i wasnt nasty in anyway shape or form to the O/P i was offering friendly advice

i am not a bully and dont take kindly to being called one for offering advice

i wouldnt class myself as a nice person if i hadnt of tried to offer advice

have 6 dogs 3 of which being rehomes.............. and god knows where they would be now if i hadnt of taken them in

NON even my rehomes are snappy aggressive and if they were i wouldnt take any more dogs or have taken them in in the 1st place as my family comes first

if people cant take advice then thats not my problem

but hey ho its gonna be another staffy that will probs end up in a rescue on death row hey

I replyed on the thread because like anyone i have a right to defend myself

especially when i have been called a nasty bully !!!!!

There are people on this forum that have met me and they know i am far from being a nasty bully
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Old 05-05-2008, 05:14 PM
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i think it depends who it is really, there are some people who jump to conclusions, and people who genuinly want to help.

as for the :if i want to do something, no one will change it" or something you said along those lines in your first post, thgat says it all really, sometimes you will be wrong, and the best thing to of done will be take advice.

and i dont think this thread will get anywere or last very long
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