How cruel is this my poor snake :(

[Molly75]

Originally Posted by pam b

I have no idea hun, get advice and phone a solicitor, do not leave at this point till you have your info off them. Gives you a weaker ground if you do, plus you can have some fun winding the pair of twats up now.
Tell him you class yourself as seperated now, you will live different lives, his mother is his responsibility but you will not leave as you have a vested interest via you contribution to the house which you are legally going to get back.
Then stand back and watch them both cack there pants!!!!

Thanks hun LOl best bit is when he heard I'm seaking lelgal advice blows his top calls me a golddigger not worried if i go told me to F off round my mums
idiot to be polite LOl and to think got made redundant too no feeling for me at all
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[amazoncat]

I'm very sorry to hear you've had such a nasty run in and in your own home. Glad the little fellow is doing alright now though - best of luck to him/her

Sadly this is not at all an uncommon attitude as I'm sure lots of you know. My father hates snakes and probably would have killed it if it had been mine, which I would have been really angry and upset about but I understand that he's irrationally scared. When he was young his father found what was probably a grass snake sunning its self on their back door step and promptly chopped it up with a spade - I know this is horrible but he didn't know it wasn't poisonous, was scared and wanted to protect his family.

I'm the same with scorpions: I'm irrationally terrified of them and if there was one running across my living room I'm not sure what I'd do other than scream a LOT. But out of utter terror I might well have a swing at it.

I obviously don't know your sister in law so I can't say if she has a phobia and it's not the same and I'm certainly not condoning what she tried to do at all but I can sort of empathise with feeling that way.

Please don't all shout at me now - I really hope the little one is fine and it's great that you've found it.

[bendigo]

Originally Posted by Molly75

Poker lol was thinking of something more shrp infact very sharp attached to a chainsaw would be good
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i can design that, im do theatre production and im a danger with anything!!!

[Molly75]

LOl no shouting :0 I do understand people have fears hell i'm scared of puke LOL but the thing is she's not really scared theres loads in the loft I'm a breeder and a room full of poorly one's ( sanctuary rehomes and disabled we run a sanctuary for sick and disabled reps)which she has access to if she comes in I've kept them 22 years and they've been with me here over 10 years all she had to do was leave the room shut not tried to kill her

Thing is people never learn his brother also is letting himself in he decided to stick his hand in with greet my bredles she bites he got bit blamed mt through the sister why did he take the key unlock the viv and try to pick her up she even has a note saying nippy
people can't work some of em out
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[amazoncat]

I can't imagine how horrible it must be to have people, you appear not to be on the best of terms with, walking in and out for your home as they wish let alone messing around with your animals. I'm afraid I'm pretty sure I couldn't put up with all that personally. It sounds like your other half needs to be a bit more supportive.

[Molly75]

LOl here;s the best bit he spoke to me on the phone really mad backing his sister up now he's got home he's not even seen me just phoned her to see how she is and have happy lil chats

I'm such a twat how far down the tree do i have to come before i see the truth

I'm an idiot!!!!!

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are all men like this or is he a mummies boy???

[shplooble]

god hun! get out i would! my OH has a HUGE phobia of crickets but if i asked him to feed any of my lizards he'd do it out of sheer respect for me we bought a house together and we cant afford to move in but he sat and planned rep room with me and what we wanted and he hates reps but he's learning and adapting and now loves beardies iggies and chams lol if theyre worth it they stick up for you regardless!!! his mums always putting me down and he always tells her its nothing to do with her lol

[mask-of-sanity]

Hi paula sorry your having a rough time .....you need to do whats best for you now time to be selfish let him deal with his mum and dont do anything for them ...you deserve better

[Snake_Pliskin]

if anyone was like that in my house and with my babies (royal python, hybrid corn, african bullfrog, chubby frogs, midwife toads) i would throw them out so fast they wouldnt know what hit them, i cant believe your other half is letting them treat you and your house the way that they are! take ya reptiles and run, you could be happy with just your reptiles,

[Molly75]

Originally Posted by mask-of-sanity

Hi paula sorry your having a rough time .....you need to do whats best for you now time to be selfish let him deal with his mum and dont do anything for them ...you deserve better

aww thanks hun
LOl do you know when i got back with my lil snakie it was half ten and the areas dodgy so i asked if he could pick me up 3 min drive he maned like crazy them shouted at me for coming out the wrong exit

Don't think this is normal>> been with him so long seem to have lost touch with reality
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