do people always have an opinion

[kevlar]

theres the other thing people get way to para on here too that one is aimed at you rachy it was over a pm someone sent me who will remain nameless but you know who you are, and i just think that we all come on here for a chat and to ask questions that we may not know all the answers too but some people really belive that they are the worlds greatest at everything and it just gets on my tits, as for you rachy i have some of my most stunning snakes from you and i dont see any reason to row with the person who sorted a set of snakes i have always wanted in my eyes that would be silly.

lets all eat flowers and chant about elephants

[bosshogg]

it would be a boring world if you all agreed on the same things wouldnt it this is a public forum your not going to agree with everyone just respect there opions.

[ratboy]

I think the point is too, if someone simply answers the question being asked and do not elaborate on it... are they seen as being blunt ?

If I ask my wife who a particular person is that waved in the village I end up getting their entire life story, who they are related to, where they went on holiday, who they are seeing, who they were seeing....

I only want to know their name because I have forgotten it

[rachy]

Originally Posted by kevlar

theres the other thing people get way to para on here too that one is aimed at you rachy it was over a pm someone sent me who will remain nameless but you know who you are, and i just think that we all come on here for a chat and to ask questions that we may not know all the answers too but some people really belive that they are the worlds greatest at everything and it just gets on my tits, as for you rachy i have some of my most stunning snakes from you and i dont see any reason to row with the person who sorted a set of snakes i have always wanted in my eyes that would be silly.

I only presumed it was aimed at me because i asked a simple question several times and it was never answered

Glad you kept your snakes and yup they are stunning , think mine are all sold now

[MissHayho]

i think people can be blunt on the forum but they may not mean to be?- i think it depends how you read the things they have written, i mean - i often mistake comments which people have text me cos i cant see the expressions n that! lol!

[spider_mad]

every forum has a few arrogant and blunt people but as majority everyone is ok. Everyone has opinion and not everyone agrees but in general with few exceptions people are polite. If you come on forum for advice or chat on something and someone shows attitude for no reason tell em where to stick it.

[hunnyxbunny]

i agree there are a minimum few who really walk the line between opinion and bullying (trust me i know hence my long absence from here but im back wahey) but 99% of people on this forum are genuine, lovely experienced repti keepers with a wealth of information. From now on ill take the advice of sticking my fingers in my ears singing lalalalal llalalalal and not let it bother me, i also agree that something innocent can be read wrong due to the lack of emotion present, so just so you all know

im writing this with a big smile, my heart is full of warmth and im happy to be back here.

take things with an open mind and definately preview nasty replies. remember at the other end of those replies it sometimes causes hurt which responses in nastiness so be nice and opinionate only when its very much needed (to protect an animal)

big hugs and love to all xxxxx