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If you want to acheive your aims here, there is no other option than infinite patience.
The second you lose it with these people they get (naturally) defensive and all of your good words fall on deaf ears. As for the young girl. Be the bigger person; if you keep your cool in the face of all this she may well go home at the end of the day thinking what a nice woman and how good it is to have learnt something that day, rather than indignation that she has no real right to. If the manager recognised you and knew of you already how come they didnt know this stuff? Changing waterbowls at suitable intervals is a job the assistant might do, but it's a task that should be delegated by the manager. Sorry, I just feel bad for the young girl working there who is probably just doing the best she can with the knowledge she has (or doesn't have!!) and got an earfull when you should have spoken to the manager rather than anyone else. I'd be impressed that she jumped to servicing the animals when you mentioned it rather than just shrugging and skulking away! ![]() just my two penneth... Lotte***
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Just want to make it clear; I didn't actually have a go at the woman. I kept my cool throughout; and despite being rather angry and worked up inside, I stayed calm and pleasant and decided to point things out and try to explain rather than just ranting and throwing a strop etc. As that really wouldn't get anyone anywhere. Lol.
I did also make a point of saying, both to the girl and the manager, that I wasn't having a go at her, and it wasn't her fault nor down to her etc; as she was just an instructed member of staff. Also that I wasn't being petty of making a scene, but was more interested or concerned about the welfare of the animal. I kept a pleasant tone, and worded/sounded my questions in a nice manner so as not to induce any nastiness etc. I wanted to try and understand why they weren't using stats or guards etc rather than being accusing as such. I honestly believe they are just mislead and just didn't realise they were doing any wrong or not fullfilling the needs of their stock. Having said that, if they are selling/keeping the animals they should know. I was also told they had a breeding trio of bearded dragons upstairs and they were on a thermostat. But anyway; my intention/issue/meaning isn't to accuse or condemn etc, rather to help them understand and lend a hand... ![]() |
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Why not refer them to the forums and when they sign up PM them some links to discussions.. there is a wealth of information to be learnt here, and if they are willing to research and adapt I am sure they will be convinced by some of the threads
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Yeah, I did think of that...I reckon I may just give them the forum address.
When you keep reptiles and as has happened to so many people; you are told it is not necessary to use stat etc you do just go with what you have been told. Especially if it is comming from someone who (supposedly) knows what they are talking about/doing... So I reckon that the people in the shop were just wrongly informed. You know what it is like, and it is so easily done. People come on here adamant is it fine to use a heat mat and such like without a stat as their friend has done it for years and had no problems, or the breeder/shop owner said it was fine without. You take it as read....unfortunately this does make it so much harder to convince people otherwise as they believe so strongly their knowledge is correct. When I was much younger and bought my first two corn hatchlings and setup I was told it was absolutely not necessary to use a thermostat and was fine to keep them together. The owner of the place swore blind it was more than fine to use a mat on its own...and I took his word for it. It wasn't until a year later that I realised just how dangerous it was; and I reckon at that time if someone told me I needed a stat I would have had a hard job believing them or convincing myself due to the position and knowledge of the original seller of my corns. So for that reason, although I am shock and disheartened that people selling these animals don't know how to properly look after them, I cannot really condemn them. I do think that for a shop to be selling these animals on, it is crazy they cannot even understand or provide their most basic requirements though. But this is not for me to judge. Like I said, I just really want to help, my main concern is not having a go at or causing arguements (and such like) with the staff or managers; but instead the welfare of the animals. I really hurts to see animals at such risk; was almost choking up in there. |
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