my thought is if I didn't have sex for a month, it'd be there after the month.
If i didn't keep snakes for a month, I'd never get back the ones I'd given up in the first place. so I'd give up sex for the month
i'd keep my snakes, my animals are my life, my other half will admit to that lol. no sex for a month is easy to cope.thats what rabbits were made for, snakes on the other hand, i'd live in regret n want em back.
Hang on.... what exactley are you suggesting we do with rabbits?
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but if a burm is better than taking the other half for a spin
frankly
people
you're not doin it right!
It's not that a burm is better than getting it on with the other half... it's that if you don't get it on for a month you're really going to enjoy it when you do go back to it, but if you stop keeping snakes and sell your burm it's GONE.
My snakes are named, they're individuals, and I wouldn't want to give up snakekeeping for a month because it would mean I'd lose Orion and Jasper and Miriel and Theo and so on... but my partner will still be there and there will still be sex available a month later if I gave THAT up for a month.
Sort of like the difference between selling your car so that you don't have a car for a month (and knowing you'd have to buy a different car after the end of the month)... and just not putting the petrol in the car so you can't USE it for a month.
Now, if my other half said he'd disown me entirely and move out if he didn't get any for a month, and I HAD to choose one or the other... I'd be asking everyone I know to board my snakes! That said, he's in perfect agreement with me - if it was a choice, both of us would go abstinent.
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