thanks guys... i just was so worried that the female was really nearly dead and i panicked...

to be honest how anyone can think thats an acceptable way to retort to
me mentioning they owed me 3 quid goodness only knows!

he keeps texting me saying i took advantage of him cos hes a teenager...

1. i gave him the geckos before i received payment
2. he paid less than i did..

how i have taken advantage is anyones guess..

but the fact the females not nearly dead is all i actually care about.

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thats bang out of order. sparkle is a lovely woman aswell as a reputable member of the forum, i hope you get this sorted sparkle

good luck

dave

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This is pathetic.
Were argueing over 3 pound.

That 3 pound is now in the post towards you.
Im new to paypal, obviously, as the first payment didnt go through.
But i got a friend to send you 80, and yes 80, because i was in a panick and late for class. The 3 pound is now in the post.

We were both out of order when texting.

I dont see how this has to come to falling out.

Lyn, Im trying to ring you but your hanging up.

I can hardly apologise if your not answering.
Yes some things i said were out of order, but so were yours Lyn. "Typical teenage cheek". Discrimanation.

I dont want to fall out over this, and now that everybody on this forum thinks im a scammer and not sinseer to the hobby. Course i am.

Yes you told me i will need to do 82 pounds or 83 a week ago. But i forgot for today, you didnt send a text message today saying "dont forget to do 83 pounds for the payment". Coz i would have if i knew, especially if its all coming to this.

Im trying to ring you, but your hanging up. After 2 rings its going straigth to o2 voice mail.

So just pay it, and quit insulting her integrity as a keeper in the process. Thats the part that's pathetic, and untrue, whereas the fact that she was simply doing nothing more than asking for what she was entitled to, is fact, and something she is well within her rights to do.

Why you didnt just do that in the first place is anyone's guess..... WELL DONE scott

So you logged back in after making the correct payment, hit the cancel button, CONFIRMED you werre cancelling, and all without knowing what you were doing? I'm sure it happens all the time

People who are late for class dont find time to send spiteful messages, and not find time to explain the simple truth, ie I havet got it I'll send it later. They dont need to log back in and send it immediately they just need to keep people in the picture as soon as they realise their mistake

Nothing wrong with giving as much as you get, especially when you're being insulted.


That would be the part where you told her she wasnt getting her money because her lizard was half dead. Incidentally, if somoene tried to blag me out of money by criticising my reptile keeping, I'd call them far worse than a Typical Teenager

As for why she isnt answering the phone.......thats because she is on the phone to ME, upset over the fact she thought one of her macks was dying.

What is "pathetic" in my book is the idea that you think your actions can be justified with "I dont understand paypal", I forgot to send it", and "Well your lizard is half dead, why would I pay you the last £3".

At the end of the day, all you had to do was say the above (excluding the last comment) in the first place. The only reason people now think you are

is because you led them to beleive it yourself......... really the only person you have to thank for that is yourself. Had you taken a different attitude or apologised in the first place, you wouldnt be looked upon that way, yet somehow its still all her fault? Wake up buddy, and get over it, you made a mistake and you really should apologise, if she doesnt want to talk to you on the phone she doesnt have to, and I dont blame her for not answering the phone after she's been abused enough already today. And how can you say its pathetic here and say genuinely that you're sorry at the same time?

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I dont want to talk to you scott this is why im not answering your calls..

lets leave it now.. it was never about the 3 pounds... i was upset over the fact you told me the female gecko was nearly dead...

now i know she isnt lets just leave it.

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Awrite Calm Urself....

Im trying to sort it out. Yes i regret saying that, but being practicly picked on coz of my age, that "typical teenage cheek" really got to me. And i was pretty angry at the time, especially the fact how its over 3 pound.

I regret what i said, hence why im trying to sort things out over the phone.

If i could physicly speak to lynn i would, but its like 2 hour drive. If i could, trust me i would.

So What was the problem when you said "teenage cheek" something rattled you...

Your 3 pound is in the post now.
Im Sorry that our friendship has fallen to pieces Lynn....

Now my career in reptiles is pretty pissed over 3 pound.

ok when i mentioned the funds were short u said..

wel im sure youd rather have it today short of money than wait a week for a postal order ..

.. thats a cheeky comment scott... and everyone ive asked agrees...

the bottom line is this... the lie you told about the gecko was terrible... the ONLY thing i did was tell you youd been cheeky... if you cant handle people explaining when uve been rude then you wont get through life easily..

and lying as a pay-back to someone telling you the truth is out of order especially when it invlolves saying an animals dying...

please dont try to cal me again i dont want to talk about it with you.

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Yes. That was bang out of order.
I fully agree to that and admit to it that i was acting like a 17 year old all over.

Just so you know, they have both been split up and the female has just munched on a mealworm (head crushed).