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Old 11-09-2007, 04:58 PM
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So What was the problem when you said "teenage cheek" something rattled you...

Your 3 pound is in the post now.
Im Sorry that our friendship has fallen to pieces Lynn....

Now my career in reptiles is pretty pissed over 3 pound.

what rattled me AS I EXPLAINED was your comment that i should be happy i got the cash today and not in a week... as if i was meant to be grateful..

i allowed the geckos to go without payment clearing... what on earth did i have to be grateful about.. everyone knows when u buy and sell animals that 3 quid on every transaction mounts up. THIS ISNT ABOUT THREE QUID .. stop using dissacociation techniques.. this is about THE LIE you told about the gecko being nearly dead.. im not upset over three pounds.. im upset that u though an accpetable reply to me mentioning you were cheeky was lying that an animal was nearly dead.. THATS NOT OK... is that clear enough now.


as i said... leave it.. and someone lock this thread before i continue being emotional over a stupid lie... as im getting really pissed off now.
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Old 11-09-2007, 05:00 PM
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Scott you seem honestly sorry for a mistake and I think everyone will calm down and forget this given time. I wouldn't worry about your reputation. It was a bad comment, but you were swift to realise your mistake and apologise. Something that takes a degree of maturity.

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Old 11-09-2007, 05:03 PM
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he hasnt appologised once for lying about the female gecko being nearly dead.. NOT ONCE...

thats a terrible thing to do..

i spent 1 1/2 hours upset today over some teengae boys lie.

if he had come on here and said something liek this...

im really sorry i lied about the gecko...


id have a degree of respect for him.. but he didnt.. he went on and on about the three pounds that frankly was NOT what upset me.
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Old 11-09-2007, 05:08 PM
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So What was the problem when you said "teenage cheek" something rattled you...

Your 3 pound is in the post now.
Im Sorry that our friendship has fallen to pieces Lynn....

Now my career in reptiles is pretty pissed over 3 pound.
Dude,. its over the fact that you lied, and thats nobody'd fault but your own.
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Old 11-09-2007, 05:09 PM
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Yes. That was bang out of order.
I fully agree to that and admit to it that i was acting like a 17 year old all over.

Just so you know, they have both been split up and the female has just munched on a mealworm (head crushed).
this was my advice to you in the first place.... i knew shed eat if you seperated them and crushed a mealies head..

i am still gutted you lied to me about her being nearly dead... to be honest that reaction from you was far worse than me saying you had been cheeky..

im gunna get a cup of tea now as my family r here and are sick of me upset over nothing...
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Old 11-09-2007, 05:17 PM
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Precisley. Thats why i followed what you said.

Lyn, Ive said sorry pretty much on every thread....
And I attempting ring you, and i dont blame you for saying ur too upset.
I fully understand what emotional distress i put you through.

I lied yes, i admit that, i genuinly regret what i said to Lyn.
I was extremely touchy at the time, my fault intirely.
I really dont want this a enabling us to fall out.

But i respect what ever your choice.

Im truthelly sorry.
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Old 11-09-2007, 05:29 PM
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I think it is good that you have apologised MEltos - I agree that we all say silly things when we ar heated but, knowing now how passionate people are over animals on here whether they have owned them for a day or a lifetime, I am sure you wouldn't do the same thing again.
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Old 11-09-2007, 05:32 PM
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I think it is good that you have apologised MEltos - I agree that we all say silly things when we ar heated but, knowing now how passionate people are over animals on here whether they have owned them for a day or a lifetime, I am sure you wouldn't do the same thing again.
Of Course I Wouldnt Brittone05.
Defernetly Going To Learn From This Horrible Experience.
If I Remembered to add the 3 pound on paypal, everything would of been fine.

Lynn, If you read this, i am sincerly sorry for what i have put you through today.

This will NOT happen again.

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Old 11-09-2007, 05:51 PM
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the one thing to learn from this is... if someone tells u they are offended or you have been cheeky it is STILL not acceptable to lie.. especially about an animal dying..

it is acceptable to disagree with them but the lie was what caused this..

you have appologised,, try to see in future that if you feel offended lying is STILL not ok as a way to upset another person.
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Old 11-09-2007, 06:45 PM
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the one thing to learn from this is... if someone tells u they are offended or you have been cheeky it is STILL not acceptable to lie.. especially about an animal dying..

it is acceptable to disagree with them but the lie was what caused this..

you have appologised,, try to see in future that if you feel offended lying is STILL not ok as a way to upset another person.

Which i have learned greatly.
I've been an arse today.

This will never happen again.
I've let myself down and the hobby down, not forgeting you Lynn.

This will never happen again.

Your 3 Pounds is coming in the post, I know that doesnt make everything okay. But its the least i can do.
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