The male may be batting for the other side mate !!

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ive got the same problem, ive got a male aphonopelma seemani that ive got on loan, but neither seem interested in each other.

oh well, jus keep on trying.

I tried 2 separate attempts with my Chile Roses , Both times looked succesful but nothing ever materialised , so I decided to let someone else have a bash with them , I dont know whether they ever got the recipe right ?? Good luck though , have you tried sharktanking him?? instead of just leaving him in with the female , put the male in a small container inside the females enclosure and leave them alone for a few days . Then let him out and see what happens

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Have you tried raising temp asnd humidity slighty then introducing male ther is also the shark tank method by where the male is put inside a cricket tub and left in her tank and look for drumming by both parties

second that. sounds the most logical tbh