I don't think that you are having a dig, I think that it's good that people on here seem on the whole to be honest. And if you don't like the answers then you shouldn't ask the questions.
I will probably have to rethink my next house mate like people have said, but you never know in couple of weeks i could be back on permanent nights, then the problem is solved. I might start building up my housing essentials anyway because that corner is coming up and you just don't know what is around it.
Thank you for your comments all advice to us noobies is good even if its not the answer we are looking for, the well being of the little ones is paramount.