As I explained below, you need to have 5 posts before you are deemed to be past the moderation time.
As I also explained in the pm, and pointed out below, a pm is a better way to contact the mods.
Perhaps the problem is you're not reading things properly?
I shall send a pm as its a much easier way to notify.
The rules of the forum are that the initial postings are moderated, this is to reduce spam. After 5 posts you can use the forum as normal. There's really nothing sinister about that