You my friend....have the tamest afrock i know!!I have a pair that have been good as gold, in all honesty.
My male, I've had for about two and a half years, he's now around 8ft and never given me any grief. Can be a bit flighty now and again though.
My female I've only had for just over a year, she's around eleven feet, but she's actually very calm.
So they do exist.
In saying that, I wouldn't get complacent with them, just in case.
did you rename her or is she still called poppy?