I have wanted a Mexican Black King Snake for a long time. They are stunning. I have only had one snake a Corn Snake, which was really my moms. I was kind of scared of snakes before and struggled to pick him up for a long time, scared that I was going to get bit. I have still never been bit and I am kind of scared to. With this fear I was thinking an older adult king snake would be better for me. But I do prefer to start out with a baby because of my minimal experience. Any advice?