Have a read of this. Makes sense when you think about it and it is the method I am now using with my 3 monitors.
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He does not like being petted/held. He has bitten me twice...
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you go to pick him up and well he just runs away, and when held he sometimes will try turn and bite
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I walk into my Rep room and he bolts for his hide as soon as he sees me
You can see the common thread, here. The one thing all of these monitors are trying to tell their keepers is "stop trying to pick me up". Holding an animal that clearly does not want to be held is no way to get it to like you. All you’re doing by grabbing him each day is reinforcing the already bad experience it’s had with you so far. Eventually, it will be untouchable.
Try this: Picture yourself in a park with two wild squirrels, Squirrel A and Squirrel B, that you would like to befriend. You decide to perform a little experiment, to compare ’taming’ methods.
Experiment A:
1. Your perspective: You grab Squirrel A and hold it until it stops struggling. The plan is to do this daily until it becomes tame. When you let it go, it runs away as fast as it can. The next time you see Squirrel A it is at a distance of 100 metres, from where it chatters angrily at you before running up a tree. With the help of some friends, you manage to corner it and grab it to continue the training process and it bites your hand. You never see Squirrel A again, either because it felt so threatened it decided to leave the park or because it hides every time it sees you.
2. Squirrel A’s perspective: There it was minding its own business when this giant predator grabbed it. It thought it was going to die. It managed to escape, but it got grabbed again the next day. It managed a second escape what wasn’t going to count on a third, so every time it saw this predator from then on, it remained hidden. That predator was clearly dangerous and persistant.
Experiment B:
1. Your perspective: You don’t try to touch Squirrel B but sit there quietly and let Squirrel B become curious about you. This takes weeks and weeks, maybe even months, of visits to the park, but you’re patient. You start to notice that Squirrel B sees you as less of a threat and so your offer it some food. At first you just offer it on the end of a pair of feeding tongs. It starts to really take interest in you. One day you leave your hand on the ground, palm up, to see what it does. After a long while Squirrel B comes over and sniffs it. A week or three later, it actually puts its hand on your palm. Weeks after that, it climbs up. Because Squirrel B never has a bad experience with you, one day you realise (maybe a year later) that Squirrel B is so comfortable with you that it happily sits on your shoulder and nothing much frightens it any more.
2. Squirrel B’s perspective: There’s this giant predatory looking primate in the park. I kept my distance for the longest time. Eventually I realised that it wasn’t really a threat at all, for even when I got really close to it, nothing happened. One day I noticed that it had food. After a while I recognised this thing as a source of food. It is also warm, so when I sit on it, I feel comfortable. I trust it now.
Now, picture your baby water monitor is a wild animal. Wait, it IS a wild animal - no imagination required. At the moment you are doing the ’Squirrel A’ experiment. The only difference is that your monitor does not have the option of running away. It knows that no matter where it hides, you’ll be able to grab it again the next day. When a monitor doesn’t like being held and puffs, squirms and/or bites you, it is telling you that it doesn’t like being held. Listen to it. Leave it alone. Let it get used to your presence before even touching it. Clean its water dish, pick faeces out of its enclosure, but leave the poor thing alone. NEVER remove it from its hide spot. Eventually, it will stop seeing you as a threat - probably when it’s a fair bit bigger, for small monitors are eaten by everything in the wild. That behaviour it is showing is an adaptation for survival honed after several million years, it’s not going to disappear overnight by force handling it.
Patience, grasshopper. It may take a fair while, but monitors live a very long time so in the grand scheme of things it doesn’t matter.