No one has been rude to you at all.
Have to agree... compared to the way some of the threads go, this has been very civilized :2thumb:
Vixki, one of the issues in keeping reptiles is that you can interpret the general basics in more than one way. As we have discovered there are lots of ways to provide a basking spot of the ideal temperature, but some are more suited for one species of reptile than another. Learning is often a result of discovering the mistakes made, and it's far better for someone else to have learnt those lessons, and thus gained valuable experience rather than repeating them yourself.
As I mentioned above, you could receive advice and suggestions on how better to do things from people with that experience, but you don't have to accept it. However, often refusing to accept the suggestions, which is not criticizing you, more trying to educate you, could result in the reptile not getting the most out of its lice in captivity. In some cases it could lead to other issues including the health of the animal.
May I suggest you post a picture of your complete setup. Let others more experienced in this species than myself comment or make suggestions on things that could be changed, or need addressing for whatever reasons, and then it will be down to you to either take those suggestions on board and make the changes, or if you feel they are not required and you have addressed the needs to what you feel is adequate then that's down to you. If as a result of the latter the lizard develops a health issue for any reason, then you would have learnt from personal experience, and hopefully whatever the issue is can be reversed.