Been married 8 years now, hence my joke about trying not to talk to myself.

I prefer married life is all I am saying. lol
As to the yanks, sometimes they think they know more than they do. I don't mean Americans in general, but rather certain ones on a certain forum who often don't seem to see past their own ego.

My female Regina was on her own for a while, went uber shy, my female cristobal was also uber shy when on her own, seen the same with vents/variabillis as well. So that tincs, ranitomeya and pumilio, all of which examples have demonstrated less 'happy' behaviour patterns when kept on their own.
As to viv design, agreed Ron. My Ancon Hill auratus viv for example is a shadowy jungle that many would find way too full of plants and decor, but the frogs are doing a lot better in there than they were in a viv more pleasing to the eye of somebody who prefers a more spartan look. For me though it's about trying to do both, please the frogs and myself. lol
Ade